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Mommy Uniform while hibernating

2011-02-11T07:30:00.002-07:00

With the weather being freezing cold, temps below zero with the wind chill we have been home for almost two weeks. My wardrobe has been all about comfort for both me and my little.

Here are some of my staples for the past two weeks. These have been on constant rotation.

Merona long sleeve tee shirts. I have about five of these now. One of my Targets marked them down to $7 so I added a few more to my selection.

Lululemon pants...Need I say more, these are wonderful. My only complaint is they are sold out of the lined version of these and won't bring them back until next fall. I even called headquarters asking if ANY stores had them in stock. No luck they are gone. I also own these and these.

My feet are always cold so I have plenty of these to keep me warm. The ones with grippers on the bottom are the best. Although watching mommy slide on the wood floors can be very entertaining to my little.

Hoping to be able to get back to wearing real clothes, but in the mean time I am enjoying being warm and comfy.

Valentine's Day treats

2011-02-10T10:35:00.000-07:00

Having a little one inspires me in so many ways. Every holiday I want to embrace everything, decorate, take pictures, get a cute little outfit for my little. This year we are making Cupcakes in a Jar for all little's friends and of course their mommies.

photo courtesy of www.elizabethannedesigns.com

Of course we are making Red Velvet with cream cheese frosting. Now I just need to keep myself from having too many of these, yum.

Still Around

2010-12-21T10:16:00.001-07:00

I haven't posted in many months. Life has been busy and no time for blogging. I do try and read blogs on the rare occasion of having a little free time. When you have a little one that does not enjoy naps the days are packed with lots of things to stay busy.

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas!
Hope to be back in the New Year.

Random Thoughts

2010-06-28T11:50:00.000-06:00

Mondays are so hard for me to get into the swing of things....always a slow start.

Here are a couple random thoughts, nothing deep I promise.

-I'm so perplexed by public nose pickers. Do they think that when their finger goes up their nose that suddenly they have a shield of invisibility?GROSS

-If you see a Mom struggling please offer to ask instead of standing and watching, really so rude!

-Why does my sunless tan come off as soon as I enter the pool and why does my nail polish get nasty from sunscreen?

-Sunshine brightens my day

-Can't wait for the weekend to arrive. I realize it is only Monday.

-The GAP is having a great sale right now. I found some cute white jeans that I'm loving!

Happy Monday

Pray for Baby Cohen

2010-06-09T18:00:00.001-06:00

Please stop and say a prayer for Baby Cohen. I do not know his parents, but one day came across their blog In this Wonderful Life. They are very strong, brave, and above all amazing parents.

Cohen is in surgery right now...My heart just hurts for them right now. I myself have said many prayers that all will go well for this baby boy and he will be healed. Please put them in your prayers as well tonight.

Knock don't Ring-Please

2010-05-12T12:24:00.001-06:00

WANTED

A sign to let visitors, the UPS man (who we love he brings us packages we love), fed ex man that a sweet sleeping baby lives here now. Anyone else get their little one down for a nap and the doorbell rings. The ring also seems to be much louder, echos, and lasts forever.

How do you kindly let people know to please knock?

Happy Mother's Day

2010-05-09T08:12:00.001-06:00

A Newborn's Conversation with God

A friend sent this to me for my first Mother's day It may bring you to tears but it is so sweet! Happy Mother's Day to all of you Mothers and soon to be Mothers!

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"
God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."

God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

Again the small child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"

God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

"Who will protect me?"

God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."

"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.."

God said, "You will simply call her, Mom."

Summer Scents

2010-05-03T15:47:00.001-06:00

I love all of Marc Jacobs splash fragrances.

They all are so light and fresh. This new summer collection is inspired by patisserie shop. I can't wait to smell them all.

Cleaning with a pretty necklace

2010-04-15T10:21:00.002-06:00

On one of my many trips to Tar-Jay I found the cutest necklace. I could not wait to wear it even around the house with a white tee shirt and jeans....So that is exactly what I did. It sure did make me feel good while I was dusting and cleaning my floors. When I walked by the mirror I had forgotten I was wearing it and put a smile on my face.

The bonus was it was on clearance. I think it will be a great necklace for the upcoming summer.

calling all mommy's

2010-04-07T14:07:00.001-06:00

HELP!!!
I need advice from mom's who have had a baby that doesn't want to sleep. My little one was a great sleeper. Would go 4-5 hours at night. Then a switched flipped and will only sleep in my arms or if I am laying down next to him. When I place him in his crib eyes open wide followed by giggles (which are so sweet and make me laugh). We are not getting enough sleep at the SS house.

The past few nights he wakes up only a hour after he ate. From there it goes downhill. Then he ends up in bed with us. I know I know I said I wasn't going to be that mom who let's her baby sleep in bed. But otherwise I can't get any sleep.

So what have you done in the past that has made your little one sleep? Is this a phase or did I create this by loving to hold and cuddle with my baby.

Top 2 Tuesday.......things you can't live without

2010-03-22T19:45:00.001-06:00

I am doing this the light hearted way (like Taylor) I guess basically 2 things I would not like to live without is more like it!
1. I can't start my day without a cup of coffee. It must be good flavored coffee, or as my husband calls it "girlie coffee."

2. Hand cream with a baby I'm constantly washing & and sanitizing my hands. The past couple months this has been my new friend. I can't stand having dry hands.

A Few Favorite Things

2010-03-22T17:19:00.001-06:00

With spring on her way (fingers crossed) I thought I would share a couple of my favorite things right now.

Keeping my feet dry from the ~~rain~~ I mean snow.

True sign of spring

http://canvas.landsend.com

Loving so many pieces from LEC. So happy all my baby weight is gone.

Keeps my dark circles under my eyes hidden. Love this miracle hero.

Amazing! Having color on my lips and still being able to kiss on my little ones chubby cheeks without leaving my kisses.

Middle of the night diaper changes so much easier. Anyone know a brand that makes gowns beyond 3 month size?

It's nice to have something cute thrown over your shoulder.

Moby wrap. The only way I get anything done.

The Undomestic Momma Giveaway

2010-03-10T10:33:00.000-07:00

You must head over to The Undomestic Momma and enter in her Giveaway Wednesday. The Z. Daisy products are too cute.
I'm actually ordering a couple items today for baby presents and a little present for Baby SS.

Going Private that's the big ?

2010-03-03T11:48:00.001-07:00

Should I go Private? I'm not sure if I really have any readers since I took a break.

So this is the big question I have been struggling with since having my baby. I'm very vague on my postings when it comes to my life. Many bloggers put it all out there for everyone to read and I am envious of your bravery. Staying fairly anonymous (no pictures or names) on my blog keeps me protected. Now that I have entered Mommyhood I want to be in the "club" more being able to share pictures, ideas, ask questions I have without all the negativity it may bring.

So maybe if I went private and could limit who could read and see I could open up more....

After reading MM last post as well as BEB's post it (wish I did) makes me realize there are a lot of rude, insensitive people reading others blogs. Not sure why others feel the right or need to be negative, place judgement or try to bring others down. I don't know either of these bloggers in real life, but they are such genuine and honest ladies.

I have always tried to live by the words "Treat others like you would like to be treated." Yes, I catch myself being snotty sometimes and have to do a self check and ask myself why am I having ill feelings toward this person?

Private maybe the answer for me.

Vaccinations

2010-03-03T10:30:00.000-07:00

As a new mommy I want to do everything I possibly can to keep my little one healthy, happy, and safe.
The dreaded vaccinations....I'm pro-vaccine all the way and can't understand why a parent wouldn't vaccinate their children, but that's a different post for another day.This is my opinion on wanting to vaccinate my baby and I know many others are against them. Please don't judge me and I won't judge you for not vaccinating.

Jenny McCarthy has changed her mind on the MMR vaccine that she claimed gave her son Evan autism. Thanks to the Baby 411 blog for posting this information. I like Jenny McCarthy and even read her first book when I was pregnant. But so many celebritites make claims about one thing or another and it just bothers me. Many times these individuals are lucky if they graduated high school.

I think it is important for anyone to be careful in the claims they make against medicine. People usually don't realize these medicines go through years of studies before making it to market. Yes, I have a lot of insight on medicine from my career so I feel comfortable making this statement.

As with anything in raising your babies all parents want the same goal to have healthy children.

Mommy Questions

2010-02-22T17:21:00.000-07:00

As a new mommy I have lots of questions. So I am reaching out to ask you....

What are your Must Haves for your baby?
What could have not been able to live without?

Also any tips for good nursing bras/camis?

Will Return Soon

2010-02-22T11:00:00.004-07:00

I have been away for too long.

Baby was born, most wonderful experience of my life. Now I'm trying to manage being a new mommy (love every second) while balancing all of life's demands.

Be back soon with updates.

Baby Book Suggestions

2009-12-22T12:46:00.002-07:00

I'm on the countdown now and everything is in place, just waiting. The one thing I haven't gotten yet is a baby book. To be honest I haven't really looked that hard because I do not like all the Disney cartoon books or any other type of characters. I'm looking for a book that is more contemporary/modern with design. Many friends have informed me baby books have changed a lot over the years. Side note I'm not going to be scrapbooking with all the little add ons and different papers. Some of the books are already assembled just add photos, this is right up my alley.

So any suggestions on what baby books you have used for your little ones?

Christmas Edition get to know blogger friends

2009-12-12T08:14:00.003-07:00

Welcome to the Christmas edition of getting to know your blogger friends. Okay, here's what you're supposed to do, and try not to be a SCROOGE!!! Just copy this entire post and paste into a new post on your blog, if you have one. Change all the answers so that they apply to you.

Yes, I know you're thinking "Please, another list?" Yes. Another list. I like hearing this kind of stuff about you all! LOVE IT. I can't wait to read your answers!

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? I love to wrap gifts. Adding pretty ribbon and decor to individualize the present for the recipient.

2. Real tree or Artificial? Artificial

3. When do you put up the tree? The weekend after Thanksgiving.

4. When do you take the tree down? Usually right after the New Year holiday.

5. Do you like eggnog? Yes, but I have to dilute it with skim milk otherwise it is a way to thick for me to drink.

6. Favorite gift received as a child? My Cabbage Patch Doll that looked just like me

7. Hardest person to buy for? Sister. What do you get someone who has everything....

8. Easiest person to buy for? My hubby and Mom

9. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes, I love putting it up every year.

10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail! I love getting and sending Christmas cards.

11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Can't remember.

12. Favorite Christmas Movie? National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation and A Christmas Story

13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? Different every year. Got a earlier start this year since I'm expecting at the end of the year.

14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? No

15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Orange flavored Chocolate, and citrus fruit

16. Lights on the tree? lots of white lights

17. Favorite Christmas song? Silent Night

18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Staying home this year.

19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? No

20. Angel on the tree top or a star? A beautiful Angel

21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Christmas Morning and one of Christmas Eve before bed.

22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? Rude people in stores.

23. Favorite ornament, theme, or color? Bride and Groom Radko ornament.

24. Favorite for Christmas Dinner? Pork Roast, citrus salad, homemade rolls

25. What do you want to do for Christmas this year? Relax and await my baby's arrival.

26. Favorite Christmas tradition growing up? Going for a family drive on Christmas Eve to see all the pretty lights.

27. Favorite tradition now?

28. Favorite Christmas Memory? Waking up on Christmas morning to the smell of cinnamon rolls being baked and everyone sitting around the tree opening presents and then enjoying a yummy breakfast together.

Baby Planner, Would you use one?

2009-12-02T19:42:00.009-07:00

Have you heard of Baby Planners? If you are like me the answer is NO. I understand there is a lot to plan, buy, and put together before your little one arrives, but needing a baby planner.
So I was a little skeptical until I started thinking about how it is difficult to decide which nursery furniture, car seat, stroller, high chair, bouncy seat, swing, baby tub, monitor, breast pump, diaper bag, and bedding is best. Friends, family, and bloggers are always great resources for advice on what worked best for their baby. Some may even go to Consumer Reports to get the professionals advice.

So now we have the job of a baby planner....NBPA (National Baby Planner Association)

I would have probably looked at their advice earlier, a little too late now. For any newly pregnant Mommies you may want to check them out.

All images courtesy of buybuybaby.com

Hospital Attire

2009-12-01T19:08:00.002-07:00

Question for all the Mom's out there....when you had your baby what did you wear in the hospital? I'm getting mixed advice from some of my friends. Some say nightgowns are the way to go due to ease of nursing and you can pull it up while you are laying in bed. Others say they didn't wear PJ's while they were there but more lounge clothes.

I'm usually not a nightgown kind of a girl, personally I get too tangled up in them while I'm sleeping.

Thoughts much appreciate.....oh and while you are sharing any must haves that I should have in my hospital bag?

A little catch up

2009-11-11T16:31:00.001-07:00

It has been a while since I have blogged, to be honest things have been really busy. Between being pregnant and also having a demanding career my blog has fallen down on my priority list.
The nursery is coming together and I'm so excited to bring my little bundle of joy home and create many memories in that room.
Now I need some advice or feedback from all the Moms out there. I am in need of two important items

1. Breast Pump
2. Diaper Bag

I want a breast pump that is easy to use and can be done hands-free. As far as a diaper bag I'm wanting something stylish and with no cartoon characters on it. Sorry I'm not a fan of Disney characters on anything.

So if you have some suggestions please let me know I will be most appreciative...

Baby Beanie Hat Giveaway

2009-10-08T08:31:00.002-06:00

If you have a baby or know someone who is expecting one soon you must go over to The Pettijohn's and enter her baby beanie hat giveaway. Believe me they are all so cute! Plus check out the model, it is Mrs. Pettijohn's adorable little guy.

Here is a sneak peak at just one of the hats:

Still around

2009-07-06T20:02:00.003-06:00

I'm still around, just been taking it easy Dr.'s orders. Finally out of the 1st trimester now just wondering when the puking, tiredness will stop and burst of energy everyone talks about will kick in.....still waiting

Hope everyone's 4th was spent with family and friends enjoying good conversation, food and fireworks.

Any tips on where to find stylish maternity clothes? I don't need them yet, actually I'm not even showing but planning ahead in my book it always a good thing.

Thanks

Long time no post & Big Surprise

2009-05-30T16:10:00.005-06:00

Long time without a post, but I promise I have a really really good excuse.

Mr. SS and I will be adding to our Stylish family with a little baby!!!

WE ARE SO EXCITED I can't even begin to tell you all. Things have been a little rough I've been really really sick and nothing make me feel better. Also I've had some bleeding so I'm being watched very closely by my Dr. and have been told to rest as much as possible. A very hard thing to do for a busy body like myself.

Please pray for us over the next few weeks that we get through this rough patch and continue to grow a healthy baby.

*******Also if you have any tips for the nausea please please share with me!!!

Again sorry for the lack of posts. I know a couple bloggers have asked me if I ever joined WW and the answer is no. I found out I was pregnant around the time I was going to join. These past few weeks I have been losing weight so for once I am hoping to stop and hold tight where I am.

Please forgive me if I don't post regularly for the next few weeks. I'm still trying to read all of your blogs just not commenting much.

Mac's Rose line

2009-05-07T16:05:00.000-06:00

Yes, I admit it I'm a makeup junkie. Whew I feel much better confessing before I start my post. One of my favorite things to do is go and have my makeup done for a special event. Maybe dinner with my hubby or drinks with my girls is my event. Nothing makes me feel like a thousand bucks than just having my makeup done. Now when I do this I then always want to buy a couple new eyeshadows, lipstick, blush.

My makeup style day to day is very light and pretty so I am loving Mac's new Rose Romance line.

Have you Heard about Atheta?

2009-05-04T12:37:00.006-06:00

If you have visited GAP, Banana Republic, Piperlime, or Old Navy web site you may have noticed an new tab along the top. According Athleta is a yoga clothing, swimwear, running clothing and more.

I already have my eye on a few items.

Throwing this on over my swimsuit would be fantastic during the summer. The price not so much $118.00, maybe when it goes on sale.

I love workout tops that have built in bras and actually run by bra size.

Trouble for Jon & Kate

2009-04-30T17:22:00.005-06:00

This came in the mail today and as always I was excited to read, until I saw the cover. My excitement quickly faded away and a sickening feeling overcame me.

I really hope that they are completely wrong about this story. In previous post I have said how I love watching Jon and Kate Plus 8. Yes, I do enjoy reading my trash magazine and most of the time I realize that things are fabricated and reported incorrectly. There are 8 beautiful children that will be affected by the magazine cover, not today but one day.

Are you serious?!!

2009-04-28T18:07:00.006-06:00

YOUR Air Force One flies 1000 feet over GROUND ZERO for a PROMOTIONAL PHOTO OP and you had NO IDEA this was happening while people were running for their lives and dialing 911 as memories of 9/11 renter their minds....

Really? Not sure why I don't believe you.

Our economy is THRIVING right now so I guess TAXPAYERS DON"T MIND PAYING the $328,835 for a picture. No I'm pretty sure they would have liked to put food on the table for their children and pay their mortgage.

It has only been 100 days since he has been in office and before he is done I have a feeling it's going to get scary, really scary.

Monday Laughter

2009-04-26T15:19:00.005-06:00

This was a funny email a friend sent to me first thing Monday morning. It made me laugh, hope it puts a smile on your face too. Can you imagine saying this to a customer with a attitude?

My 1 day employment

So after landing my new job as a Wal-Mart greeter, a good find for many retirees,I lasted less than a day......About two hours into my first day on the job a very loud, unattractive,mean-acting woman walked into the store with her two kids,yelling obscenities at them all the way through the entrance. As I had been instructed, I said pleasantly, "Good morning and welcome to Wal-Mart."
Nice children you have there. Are they twins? The ugly woman stopped yelling long enough to say, "Hell no, they ain't twins. The oldest one's 9, and the other one's 7. Why the hell would you think they're twins?" Are you blind, or just stupid?'
So I replied, 'I'm neither blind nor stupid, Ma'am, I just couldn't believe someone slept with you twice.

Have a good day and thank you for shopping at Wal-Mart.'
My supervisor said I probably wasn't cut out for this line of work.

Smashbox Giveaway

2009-04-26T10:09:00.004-06:00

I love love Smashbox products and listed the lip glosses in some of my favorite beauty finds. Don't forget to enter Wearing Mascara Smashbox giveaway. Lots of great products in this giveaway!! The Photo Op under eye brighter is amazing.

Public Service Announcemt

2009-04-25T15:04:00.006-06:00

Have you seen the recent Anti-Smoking PSA? Well if you haven't click here. This PSA is causing a lot of controversy showing a toddler boy crying because he is lost. Showing several scenes and then ending with a voice saying "just imagine if they lost you for life."

This is a great PSA in my opinion! To be fair I should say I hate smoking and hate that smokers feel they should have a designated area to smoke it public places. How about go home and smoke in the privacy of your own home where you are the only one breathing the toxic air.

The worst for me is to pull up next to a car with a parent smoking and to see children in the back seat. I worry every time I see this that these poor children will get cancer at a lung age or who knows what other health issues will come up. If I could I would rescue all of you little ones so you can breath clean toxic free air. I do give the parents my disapproving looks and sometimes I turn into the vocal lady in saying "you choose to smoke, why make that decision for your children too"

Thank goodness the city I live in doesn't allow smoking in public areas at all. I can't even remember the last time I had to say can we be sitted in the non-smoking section since the entire restaurant is smoke free.

Spring Purchases

2009-04-17T15:37:00.014-06:00

As the weather starts to finally warm up and the flowers are starting to bloom I couldn't pass up a couple spring purchases.

This dress has been in my shopping bag for a little while now and decided I better go ahead and make the purchase or it may sell out. This will be perfect for one of the many bridal showers or baby showers that I'm attending in the next few months. Love this bright aqua color.

J. Crew

These shorts are so comfy, well at least they were when I tried them on in the fitting room. I will warn you they are very low fitting on the hips. Good thing most tanks and shirts are longer these days. No one needs to see a my HP's poking out!
If you like these shorts don't buy them online, but at your local GAP they are only $25.00 right now.

GAP

These Tory Burch thong sandals were too cute to pass up for summer. I do not own any of her Reva ballerina flats. Every time I try them on they hurt my feet, so I opted for the sandal.

Nordstrom

These are the best tank tops ever. I have tried tanks from everywhere expensive ones to the Old Navy $4 ones. Out of all of them these are my go to anytime I need a tank. The are long enough to wear while layering but not too wide in the body. Throw them in the dryer and they will not shrink. If you love tank tops I promise you will want to stock up.

Target

Joe's Jeans are always a favorite and I wanted to try a cropped pair as the months get warmer. The Socialite Kicker love the name.

Nordstrom

Haven't purchased this perfume yet, but it smells great. I'm always searching for the one scent that is my signature perfume. Yet to find it, and know this probably isn't it either but I'm always looking. Do you have a signature scent, if so what is it?

Nordstrom

Snakes on a Plane

2009-04-16T10:48:00.004-06:00

Are you kidding me???? Snakes escaping on a plane, I thought this was a sick joke based off of the movie. No my blogger friends this really happened in Australia. For the full story click here.
Baby Pythons 4 (there were a total of 12) of them to be exact escaped!!! They were in the cargo area in a bag inside a plastic foam box with air holes. Are you freaking kidding me, I'm so scared of snakes that this really makes my skin crawl. They didn't find out they were missing until the plane landed and I'm sure whoever was there to collect them was freaking out when they all weren't accounted for. Even after a reptile expert (who would ever choose to do this is beyond me) searched the entire plane for the 6 inch nasty snakes, they were never found.

*Just to freak me out even more they can grow to be 3 feet long*

New Closet Reading Material

2009-04-15T19:20:00.001-06:00

photo from people.com

Tori Spellings new book is coming out next Tuesday, yes I will be reading it. I read her first book sTori Telling and liked it. This is a great picture of Tori. Loving her in the color green, it is my new favorite color as well. The one shoulder is making a huge statement this season. I can remember 5 years ago when the one shoulder was the all the rage wish I would have saved a couple of those cute tops. Not sure about the red lipstick for me but on her I think she looks great. Are there any other closet readers out there? What books do you read and keep to yourself???

Photos and Synopsis courtesy of Barnes and Noble

Synopsis

Tori Spelling is an actress whose career spans theater, television, and film. She's received critical praise for her work in such independent films as Trick and The House of Yes. Recently she both starred in and executive produced the comedy series So NoTORIous on VH1 and the popular reality series Tori & Dean: Inn Love on Oxygen. She lives with her husband, Dean McDermott, and son, Liam, in Los Angeles.

Synopsis

sTORI telling is Tori's chance to finally tell her side of the tabloid-worthy life she's led, and she talks about it all: her decadent childhood birthday parties, her nose job, her fairy-tale wedding to the wrong man, her so-called feud with her mother. Tori has already revealed her flair for brilliant, self-effacing satire on her VH1 show So NoTORIous and Oxygen's Tori & Dean: Inn Love, but her memoir goes deeper, into the real life behind the rumors: her complicated relationship with her parents; her struggles as an actress after 90210; her accident-prone love life; and, ultimately, her quest to define herself on her own terms.

Put a smile on your face

2009-04-13T17:00:00.003-06:00

A friend of mine sent me this video many months ago. When I was going through my emails I came across it again and still makes me laugh.
Yes, I know it's not funny to have a little one cursing like a little sailor, but it is funny!!

Couldn't get the video to post so here is the link.

The Landlord

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T18:17:00.001-06:00

Wishing everyone a very Happy Easter

Hanky Panky

2009-04-10T15:10:00.004-06:00

I love Hanky Panky panties....they are the best never giving youVPL. Visible Panty Lines are one of my biggest pet peeve. As the warmer weather approaches not having a VPL is very important with white pants, linen pants, lets face it any type of pants, dress or skirt.

Who knew they now have them for moms to be, love it. I'm going to have pass along that tid bit to a couple of my prego mom friends who have been complaining about the maternity panties.

As seen on T.V. products

2009-04-06T17:50:00.012-06:00

Do you buy any of the As Seen on T.V. Products? I have purchased a couple of them....
If you are curious go visit As Seen on T.V. and you can check them all out.

Have you seen the Bumpit? A few months ago I was running on the treadmill and the mother who created these was on t.v. She showed how to use them on her daughter. They seemed easy enough, but I didn't order one. Now I'm rethinking my decision. A little omph on top would be nice especially when it's humid outside this summer. Has anyone tried them?

Here are a few of As Seen on T.V. products I have tried:

These really do work as far as providing water to your plants. Now the hard part is just remembering to add the water...hmmm I do place these really far down so you can't see them. I know half the fun with these is they are hand blown art for your plants.

These bags really do work. Now I haven't marked off days on the calendar to count how many additional days my produce stays fresh, but I can tell a difference for sure.

A friend of mine gave me a Snuggie for a gift, don't worry I got the free reading light too! I admit I think the Snuggie is a great idea, but the material is so scratchy and had so much static. My snuggie is RIP....

These are some of the products I've thought about buying but haven't:

I've thought about buying one of these to use on my Stylish puppy. When she gets groomed they used something like this on her nails and it makes them not sharp. Mommy loves this because when I pick her up I don't have scratch marks all over my chest and arms. Has anyone tried this?

Love the commercial for Mighty Putty when it is pulling a semi. I just haven't had a use for any yet, maybe one day.

Now I haven't tried these and probably never will since all the drama the spokesman has brought upon himself last week. But in the past I have thought about trying these out. They seem to soak up everything.

Now this is just ridiculous!! REALLY, time for a hair cut....

*Note I do not order items from on T.V. infomercials. All of these items were purchased at local stores. Walgreen's has a small section of these items.

I'm Hooked....

2009-04-05T14:42:00.008-06:00

Yes, I know I'm late to the twilight series, but I'm loving it. Watched the movie first and fell in love with the characters Bella and of course Edward. Now I'm reading the book and have the entire series waiting for me to finish. Late to join the craze because I don't like vampires or vampire type movies. This movie was so different the love story was great.

He is very cute!

I saw these two pictures and had to share

Missing posting

2009-04-05T14:24:00.000-06:00

Sorry I haven't posted in a while....things have been very busy.

Weight Watchers Advice Needed

2009-03-26T18:37:00.005-06:00

So I have not felt very good about myself for a little bit. I've been working out with a trainer to get on a workout schedule. When I Stepped on the scale last week the number staring back at me was more than a bit of a shock to me. My pants are not tight just feeling a little snug. I know that there are a lot of bloggers out there who have either tried weight watchers, are currently on the program or have done it in the past. I need your help!!! I'm wanting to lose about 10-12lbs and not sure if weight watchers is the way to go or if I should just put my running shoes back on and hit the pavement. The second part of this is I want to get the weight off very quick, but only in a healthy way. There is a great deal of potential that we will be deciding to start a family sooner than later. At this point I can't think about gaining any additional weight until I get these few pounds off.

Photo courtesy of google images

These are my questions about Weight Watchers

Is the weight watchers program easy to follow? I'm on the road constantly during the day and eat fairly healthy already. More about the portion control for me if I'm honest. What are some of the positives/negatives of the ww way? Is it better to sign up for online access or meetings? I'm not sure if I can go to meetings due to my schedule, but if push came to shove I could do it.

Please give Stylish Suburban your honest thoughts and advice....

Magic Pants

2009-03-21T09:22:00.002-06:00

Clemsongirl has posted about her love of the magic pants. I finally ordered a pair and can't get out of them once I get home from work. As she has said they are the most comfortable pants. The length is still long enough for me and tall. They will look cute with a tank top & flip flops for running errands this spring/summer. But for now they look and feel comfy as I'm laying on the couch.

These have the Stylish Suburban seal of approval

Thanks Clemsongirl for posting about these great pants.

Dryel Versus Dry Cleaning

2009-03-20T09:05:00.000-06:00

Dry cleaning is something I hate spending my money on, but have to because the majority of my work clothes are dry clean only. Dryel has been out for many years I've never tried it.
Does anyone have any experience with using Dryel? Have you used it on a variety of fabrics? Silk, Wool, and Cashmere? Pants, tops, sweaters, pants, skirts?

Not sure why I am so hesitant to use this instead of paying over $100 dollars a month on my dry cleaning bill. Other than I don't want to ruin anything during my test runs...can you blame me

Also if you go to Dryel.Com you can get a $3.00 coupon.
Any tips or thoughts would be appreciated.

Whoopie Pie Comeback

2009-03-18T19:19:00.008-06:00

Have you ever had a Whoopie Pie? I haven't. According to the NYTimes today they are making a huge comeback, some say they made be the next cupcake craze. Described as a cake sandwich with vanilla cream frosting, what is not to love.

They look very yummy!!

Photo courtesy of NYTimes

If you remember back in Feb. Williams-Sonoma had sweetie pies available for Valentine's Day They are still available a dozen for $49 . Red velvet cake with chocolate, vanilla, or raspberry frosting. Williams and Sonoma described their sweetie pies as "Pure edible nostagia"

So where did the name WHOOPIE come from?

According to NYTimes "Food historians believe whoopie pies originated in Pennsylvania, where they were baked by Amish women and put in farmers’ lunchboxes.

Tired from a morning’s work, the farmers purportedly would shout “Whoopie!” if they discovered one of the desserts in their lunch pails"

~Anti- Lilly I confess~

2009-03-18T17:00:00.010-06:00

Since Make Mine a Mojito was the brave one out of all the blogs I read to admit that she is not a Lilly Pulitzer fan I have to come out and admit this too.

Full disclosure and to be honest I can't stand Lilly!!

Maybe because I didn't grow up in the South, or this is what I tell myself. When I see grown women wearing Lilly I just think they look like they are wearing little girl's clothing or like they belong in the Stepford Wifes. Little girl's in Lilly is very cute, all the bright colors, and animal prints (not my kind of animal prints like zebra and leopard) more like pink and green elephants which scare me as they are juvenile. fitting. My Lilly dislike also flows over to my dislike of Vera Bradley bags. Again I feel they mostly look very young and resemble diaper bags.

If you have been reading my blog you know my taste is much more along the lines of Banana Republic, J. Crew, Ann Taylor Loft, Gap. My style could be described as classical trendy if there is such a description.

Please don't be mad or leave me mean comments this is only my opinion. Thank You Mrs. Mojito for being the first, you are not alone.

Housewives of New Jersey

2009-03-17T21:04:00.005-06:00

Round 4 of the Housewives next stop New Jersey....Not sure how this season will turn out but turn in on May 12th. I didn't like Atlanta at all but love OC and NYC is growing on me. If you want to read more go to People.

This group is all close knit, sisters are even included. I will be looking forward to meeting Jaqueline, Teresa, Danielle, Dina, and Caroline.

St. Patty's Day

2009-03-17T06:32:00.001-06:00

Happy St. Patrick's Day

Here are a couple pictures as to how people celebrate across the country.

Dying the Chicago River green. The White House made the fountains green today as well.

Dressing up and changing the name of your city.

I just celebrate with a green beer every year and while wearing something green. Pretty low key.

Valentino The Last Emperor

2009-03-16T20:24:00.011-06:00

The day has finally arrived

I can not wait to see this movie, I have such respect for Mr. Valentino. Anytime Valentino has granted a magazine a interview I have to read it, or anything on T.V. that has any bit of him I have to watch it. He is a true Fashion Icon, no one dresses the female body like Valentino. Now if only one day I can be privileged to own OK try on one of his pieces of art.

OPENING IN SELECTED CITIES STARTING MARCH 18: New York City, Los Angeles, Chicago and San Francisco.

Shown around the world in film festivals to wide acclaim, VALENTINO THE LAST EMPEROR is a feature film that has captured the hearts and imaginations of audiences. It is a behind-the-scenes look at the world of fashion, featuring access never-before allowed in the high temples of Haute Couture. .

Photo courtesy of: www.valentinomovie.com

For those who have not heard of this amazing movie here is the Synopsis:

VALENTINO THE LAST EMPEROR is a feature-length film on the legendary designer Valentino Garavani in the wake of his exit in 2008 from the company he founded in Rome more than 45 years ago. Produced and directed by Matt Tyrnauer, Special Correspondent for Vanity Fair magazine, the film is an intimate, engaging and very funny fly-on-the-wall exploration of the singular world of one of Italy's richest and most famous men. The film documents the colorful and dramatic closing act of Valentino’s celebrated career, tells the story of his extraordinary life and work, and also explores the larger themes affecting the fashion business today. But at the heart of the film is the unique relationship between Valentino and his business partner and companion of 50 years, Giancarlo Giammetti. Source: www.valentinomovie.com

Coach Beauty

2009-03-16T18:22:00.000-06:00

All photos courtesy of Coach.com

Coach has expanded beyond just the classic handbags, wallets, perfume. While contemplating your next coach purchase you can also get a new lipstick. One stop shopping...

Lip Gloss Charm

Charm holds two shades of pink gloss
I'm thinking this would be a great gift for a teenage girl.

Body Splash: Peony, Iris, Freesia

The purse I have my eye on right now:

Celebrity Chefs' Top Recipes

2009-03-15T08:17:00.000-06:00

Since I am a DVR girl watching live shows never happens for me. While catching up on my weekly shows I came across a Oprah where she had Celebrity Chefs come into a family and makeover how they cook. Please Tyler Florence come to the SS household, his recipes are some of my favorites. They shared one family's average was $400 on takeout a week (this is really crazy to me) and after they were done a week at the grocery store was $59. Pretty amazing...

Photo courtsey of Oprah.com

Over the past year I have started really enjoying cooking for Mr. SS and am always on the hunt for fast, healthy recipes. So I was hooked and had to watch the entire episode. The chefs that were on the show were Cat Cora, Curtis Stone and Tyler Florence. They spent time not only revealing 50 great recipes, but also making them all available online and the shopping list. Could it be any easier??

So if you are interested in the recipes and shopping lists go to Oprah. If you try any of the recipes and really like them don't forget to share your thoughts.

Summer Sandals

2009-03-14T13:51:00.011-06:00

Have you seen these adorable sandals?

I love these three pairs and will be adding at least two if not all three of them to my summer wardrobe. They will be available at Target April12-June 28, but I have a feeling these will go fast once they hit the shelves.

All photos are courtesy of Target

These red sandals with the starfish are my favorite and will be my first purchase.
G.R.I.T.S. I thought of you when I saw these since you love starfish.

These green patent sandals are soooo cute and I would love to wear them with a cute navy sundress for during the day. Dress them up with white pants and a sassy top for dinner and cocktails.

These will be a go to sandal to wear with anything. The cute turtle has great details with the rhinestones and jewels. I can see myself wearing these with shorts, jeans, skirts really anything.

Now I just need the weather to warm up so I can get my feet into some of these sandals.

Christian Siriano+Payless=Fierce

2009-03-11T15:08:00.008-06:00

Who could forget Christian Siriano from Project runway...well he has launched a new shoe & accessory line with Payless. Inspired by Egyptology, the footwear is full of spikes, chains, and cone heels. The predominant color being chocolate brown. The prices will range between $25-$45 and will be available this fall in stores.

So in the words of Christian are these FIERCE or not?

Who is Paying?

2009-03-09T07:00:00.000-06:00

Still laughing because no one is paying Stylish Suburban mortgage but The SS household. On the other hand I'm Pretty sure we are paying many other mortgages besides my own.

Kreativ Award-Thank you The Luckiest Mrs.

2009-03-08T07:03:00.000-06:00

Thank you to The Luckiest Mrs. she gave me this great award. Thank you Thank you you are so sweet!

Here are the award rules:

List 7 things that you love, and then pass the award on to 7 bloggers that you love!

Be sure to tag them and let them know that they have won. You can copy the picture of the award and paste it on your sideboard letting the whole world know...you are Kreativ!

Here are 7 things that I love...
(besides the obvious= husband, family, God, friends...)
1. Sitting outside in the sun
2. Getting mail
3. Working outside in my yard
4. Traveling to a new destination
5. Girl Weekends
6. Lazy Sunday mornings with my husband
7. The smell of babies, oh so sweet

Now it's your turn, friends!
1. Peppermint Bee

2. Puttin' on the G.R.I.T.S.

3. Sweet Simplicity

4. Simple Yet Classic

5. Petunia in Paradise

6. Newly-Wedded Wife

7. The Pink Tutu

Don't Forget

2009-03-07T23:50:00.000-07:00

It's that time of the year when we have to change our clocks. We also change all of our batteries in our smoke detectors. The sun will be rising earlier, the weather is getting warmer (hopefully), the daffodils and tulips will soon be in bloom.

I just love love this time of the year.

Glamour Subscription

2009-03-07T19:00:00.001-07:00

Thanks to Downtown Southern for posting about this, I had to pass it along..If you are a magazine whore like myself you MUST go over to Glamour and sign up for a 1 year subscription for $1.50.
All of this is to celebrate Glamour's 70th Birthday!! This was the price in 1939.

Glamour Thank You!! I look forward to getting my issue every month now I'm even more excited that I extended my subscription.

Award Time a bit late

2009-03-06T16:56:00.014-07:00

I am a bit late, so sorry Peppermint Bee that I am just now getting the sweet award that you left me on your blog.

“These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers. Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award.”!

I choose:

Her Highness of Cute

All Things Moody

A Belle and her Beau

La Petite Chic

Downtown Southern

Lis Loves

Milltini Straight Up, With a Twist

Newlyweds Next Door

Daily Motto

2009-03-05T09:44:00.006-07:00

"Just think how happy you would be if you lost everything that you have right now and then got it back again."

I read this a while back and I'm trying to make this a daily motto, when things seem so out of my control. Knowing that things could always be worse and I'm blessed to have my family, friends, and freedom. Reminding myself of these simple words help keep me grounded in the busy place we call life.

Style and Class

2009-03-04T07:00:00.005-07:00

Michelle Obama no I did not vote for your husband to be President of our great country and I am still scared what the future holds. On the non political side of things I love the way you have personally conducted yourself since you have become our First Lady. Your whole attitude radiates class, my family comes first, independence, and strength. I commend you for this and hope that you continue to be a woman that other women and young girls will look up to and strive to become. Not become the Presidents wife {great job yes I agree}, but to become a strong & independent woman. Having your girls make their beds every morning is probably very grounding to them, although they want someone else to do it.

Now your fashion choices have not disappointed either. Your dress and coat on inaugruation day were very classic, the J. Crew gloves added a touch of I'm a normal lady and you can afford these gloves as well. There has been a lot of talk over your arms being shown so much, girl you have great arms so show them as much as you want. To all the haters out there I think you are just jealous of her arms!! Leave her alone, spend time worrying about the economy not if she has sleeves on her dress.

Gym Motivation and a Sweet Treat

2009-03-03T18:59:00.003-07:00

I haven't tried these yet, but I am thinking that I need to very soon. Not until I get myself to the gym a couple times this week. Hmmm this is good motivation and a reward all in one. Now I just need to phone a friend to go with me because I will not eat the whole thing. Things always look better to me than they taste and they go to waste.

Banana Republic Sale

2009-03-03T06:32:00.006-07:00

Over the weekend I was out running around doing my usual errands and just happened to take a detour to BR. Well glad I did, not sure if anyone else shopped there over the weekend but I'm glad I did. All sale items were a additional 20% off and I walked out with a pair of Jackson wool pants and silk blouse for under $50.00

This silk blouse was originally $69.00 and I got it for $21

picture courtesy of banana republic

This isn't the exact pair of Jackson pants I got, but I couldn't find a picture. They are a wool blend color dark carmel. Orginally $89 this shopper only paid $18.

picture courtesy of banana republic

*Advice if you haven't been into your local BR lately you may want to take a detour.

Love me some Donald

2009-03-01T18:58:00.004-07:00

The Apprentice is starting tonight and I can't wait.....Love me some Donald Trump! He tells is as it is and doesn't sugar coat it. That is how real business is done, no hurt feelings or taking things personal. I only wish I could handle some business situations I'm put in as The Donald does.

The Celebrity Cast this season is going to be very interesting. Joan Rivers, Denise Rodman, Brian McKnight, Tom Green, Clint Black, Khole Kardashian, T-Boz, Scott Hamilton, and more.

Junior League Cookbooks?

2009-02-25T16:06:00.005-07:00

So I have read several bloggers mention recipes that they have gotten out of a Junior League cookbook. So to all you JL members what is your favorite cookbook title/where do I buy it/favorite recipe?

Real Simple

2009-02-24T17:09:00.007-07:00

This is my favorite magazine and has been for the past few years. I look forward to getting my monthly Real Simple. Lots of ideas from organizing (which I love), recipes, new uses for simple things you have around the house.

CD cases I have lots of these neatly organized in baskets. But this is a great idea.

One of my most favorite piece of advice from Real Simple:

How Do You Deal With ‘Shirt Gap’?
You know what I'm talking about (especially the busty ladies). You buy a button down top and it fits everywhere, but pulls at the bust. Frustrating.....not anymore

Meet Privacy Strips

Real Housewives of Orange County/NYC

2009-02-19T17:36:00.010-07:00

*Disclaimer I am not a judgmental person at all everyone should live their lives as the want. Some things I just struggle to understand...Since all these ladies put their lives on national T.V. and act like they do they probably expect a lot of opinions.

Yes, I am a bit behind but I had to finish watching The Real Housewives of Orange County before I could move onto the new season in NYC. To wrap up the OC season I was so sad to see how the ladies behaved on the season finale (exception Jeana & Gretchen). They are so snide to each other behind their backs but so nice to their faces. Ex: Gretchen tries to be nice and give all the ladies a little present and Vicki acts like a complete B****. Vicki states Jeana and I didn't get the email saying bring gifts. Take it as a sweet gesture ladies and maybe you can learn a little something. 2nd Ex: Jeff gives Gretchen a red Harley and Vicki won't even go up and see it instead talks trash about Gretchen wanting attention, all the mean while Vicki is putting her new Rolex in everyone's face. Who doesn't like a little attention, but please. I've always liked Vicki's determination to be successful in her business and raising her kids but she went a little over board this season.
Now onto Tamra, I'm sorry but I really can't stand her and the balloons on her chest. She is so rough around the edges and stands out on the show as the one who tries so hard because she doesn't belong. The competition she creates with Gretchen is comical. Yes, you are older, have more wrinkles, carried four children and Gretchen is 10 years younger and beautiful. Be grateful for your four beautiful children and your loving husband instead of worrying about the blonde who is younger.

picture courtesy of: www.realitytvmagazine.com/

Switching to NYC....These ladies are really funny to me. One question what is up with Alex and Simon? They are two individuals that I just do not understand. The act as if they are living the high life with wealth, designer clothes, wanting their bilingual children attend elite private schools. Their home is in shambles and I don't understand this how you want your children to live day in day out in house like that but you justify spending thousands of dollars on clothing. I only say this because I never went a day needing something but not being able to have it because my Mom needed a multi thousand dollar dress.

Between the two casts I think the OC ladies are more fake in how they present themselves physically. No judgment at all on plastic surgery from me, one day I maybe the one turning to botox or another procedure. But the OC ladies seem to really be themselves on camera and viewers get a glimpse of their lives and personalities. The same is not true for NYC these ladies are fake all around. I find it hard to believe they are not putting on a show when the cameras start rolling to tape. These are Just my opinions.

So which housewife are you: http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-orange-county/games/real-housewives-oc-season-4-personality-quiz

I'm Gretchen or so the quiz says. I will say I'm very loyal to my husband and enjoy being a caregiver. Taking care of my friends and loved ones is something I very much enjoy. From the show it seems that Gretchen also likes to have fun with her girlfriends and a few cocktails. Guilty as charged. Lastly she said she wants to be a Mommy one day and I too have this dream. Hopefully sooner than later is my dream.

Where is J. Crew??? Not near me

2009-02-19T09:28:00.000-07:00

J. Crew J. Crew oh where are you? Not at any of my local T.J. Maxx stores. Guess it's not meant to be me finding summer dresses and a pair or three shoes. Ugh, yes I'm jealous of all you lucky bloggers who have been finding great J. Crew items. Wondering if only specific regions of the country where stocked and not others.

Cupcake Love

2009-02-15T19:26:00.006-07:00

On Saturday afternoon of my Valentine surprises was two cupcakes from Starbucks and a latte to compliment. We only sampled each of the cupcakes to taste them and I do have to say both the Double Chocolate and the Vanilla Bean. I was very surprised that they were as yummy as they were.

Sprinkles is still my favorite but if the urge arises while I am grabbing my latte now I have a place to get both.

Shopaholics are you ready??

2009-02-13T15:43:00.003-07:00

I am sooooo excited to see this movie and hoping that Mr. SS will be a sweet Valentine and go with me tomorrow.

This series of books was a favorite of mine and wish there was a new one. While reading of Becky's funny shopping adventures I would think to myself great idea.

ie: Having a credit card hidden in a secret place that is hard to access but you know its there if you really need it. If my memory is correct she had it hidden in a makeup compact so it was always close but she had to break it open to have access. Makes you probably really think about that purchase is it a want or a need.

Anyway have a great weekend and can't wait to see if anyone goes to see the movie and what their thoughts.

Thanks

2009-02-12T17:04:00.001-07:00

Thanks for the Valentine Day suggestions! I think we are going to cook dinner together and stay in for the night. Actually looking forward to a relaxing evening.

Beauty tips for life

2009-02-12T06:12:00.004-07:00

I read this and could not help but want to pass it along.

Beauty tips for all walks of life
For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers
through it once a day. For poise, walk with the
knowledge that you never walk alone.
As you grow older, you will discover that you
have two hands, one for helping yourself,
and the other for helping others.

Letter Game

2009-02-11T19:27:00.001-07:00

I signed up over at: All things Fluffy...Fashionable...& Famous

So, here's the deal: If you want to play, leave a comment on this post letting me know, and I'll assign you a letter. You post ten things you love that begin with your assigned letter. When people comment on your list, you give them a letter, and the chain continues on and on. I got the letter M, here are my ten things:

1. Makeup

2. Manicure

3. Mocha

4. Mountains

5. Mom

6. Mac & Cheese

7. Magazines

8. Music

9. Madras

10. Movies

Motivation

2009-02-11T15:39:00.002-07:00

My new motivation for the summer months approaching which include bikini time.
This photo is now hanging below my T.V. so I have to stare at it the entire time I'm on my treadmill. Not that I want to be her (would it be so bad) just a visual to keep me focused on the task at hand.

Note: These pictures rotate. When I see something new to put a fire under my behind up it goes. These pictures keep me going when I'm getting tired and think I just can't run/walk anymore there it is like a ray of light saying keep going you can do it.

What keeps you motivated or inspires you when you are struggling through a workout?

V Day

2009-02-11T06:56:00.006-07:00

Valentine's Day is approaching very quickly and I love everything about this holiday. The pink and red decorations in all the stores, aisles decorated with pink and red candy. Being able to be so in love with Mr.SS. One exception this year we have not made any Valentines plans. This is the first year since Mr. SS and I have been together that we haven't made any plans at all. Now time is wasting away and I'm sure all the good restaurants are booked with reservations. Maybe we will cook dinner together at home.
What are you doing with your Valentine to celebrate this year?

Does anyone have any good ideas/like to share a recipe.

Hope you all have been more productive in getting ready to celebrate the day of love.....

Also if you are interested in the history of Valentine's Day click here

Are you the exception or the rule?

2009-02-09T06:44:00.007-07:00

So I didn't watch the Grammy's last night instead I went with a girlfriend two see "He's just not that into you." Wish I would have watched the Grammy's instead. Two married ladies sitting in the theater watching this movie and the whole time I wanted to cringe. How these women act or I should say obsess over their interactions with men. One of my best friends does this crap all the time and I'm always saying stop it if he likes you he will call until then stop OBSESSING over every detail. I try to be a good friend but these conversations can go on for hours on the phone. In the end she does what she thinks is right just like Gennifer Goodwin's character. Dating Mr. SS was just very natural if I wanted to call him I did no questions asked. Granted that was over 5 years ago so now that I'm older maybe we get a little more desperate.

Click here to see Top 10 Chick Flick Cliches not found in the movie..Which one is your favorite?

Maybe all women should just ask themselves the question:

" are you the exception.... or the rule?
So tell me when you started dating your hubby or boyfriend which were you?
I was the exception I guess like I mentioned everything was natural. We both liked each other so we didn't play games. Our dating was a amazing experience. Letters waiting for me on my apt. doorstep, flowers, cooking dinner together, walks every evening after work. Just the way I would have written my love story. To all the ladies who haven't been the exception it will come and when it does you will know immediately I promise.
Looking back I had a lot of being the rule, but I guess I always knew it at the time and was just going along with the flow having fun.

More to come on Grammy Fashion later this evening.

If I haven't professed my love of John Mayer I will now. His songs make me weak in the knees and when he has his hair short he is very handsome as well. Last night he seemed a little off.
1. What are you wearing? Where is Jen to assist with your fashion choices....

2. Why are you being strange when asked a question?

"Ninety-nine percent of my life is still completely common. I do have a golden helicopter. I fly it to Malibu. But other than that, I consider myself like everyone else."
~John Mayer, talking with Ryan Seacrest on how he relates to "regular people"

(quote & photo courtesy of People.com)

Carrie Bradshaw Replaced?

2009-02-08T09:21:00.021-07:00

Photo courtesy of dresslikestarz

Page Six has asked the question:

Is Whitney Port the New Carrie Bradshaw?
I think NOT.....

Whitney Port has left The Hills of L.A. for The City-her very own NYC reality show. But in her search for love, success and fame, can this bubbly blonde TV star be the next Carrie Bradshaw?

Photo courtsey of Whitneyport.celebuzz.com

My answer is No Way these are big Manolo's to fill. How can anyone replace Carrie Bradshaw? The girl we all grew to love and couldn't wait to see what she would wear on the next episode. She gave us our love of Manolo Blahniks, Cosmos, the freedom to discuss guys & sex more openly with our girlfriends. To be fair I don't even know who Whitney Port is so I did a little investigating. Yes, I admit it I have never seen a episode of the Hills or Laguna Beach.

Photo Courtesy of WhitneyPort.celebuzz.com

So who is Whitney: Recently graduated from from the University of Southern California with a degree in gender studies (I'm not sure what gender studies means).
Always loving fashion (a girl after my own heart) and wanting to work in the fashion industry
(I miss these days too) she interned at woman's wear daily. Teen Vogue needed interns she fit the bill and started there. Everything just fell into place for her after that. MTV calling wanting her to be on The Hills. Now she has started a new life living in NYC and working at DVF. Also she has her own fashion line Whitney Eve . Wow!! So obviously I've been living under a suburban rock, not really. Are these new documentary/reality (not being serious) shows for the younger 20 somethings?

Do you think Carrie can be replaced? I still think No and to prove my point who could wear these outfits or start fashion trends and look so good.

photos courtsey of HBO

Layering as many pearls as your neck can handle

The Carrie necklace

The big flowers

Photo courtesy of ShinyStyle

As we drive along this road called life, occasionally a gall will find herself a little lost. And when that happens, I guess she has to let go of the coulda, shoulda, woulda, buckle up and just keep going.~ Carrie Bradshaw (goes along with my motto for 2009)

Give a girl a break

2009-02-06T18:04:00.010-07:00

I know this has been posted on a couple of other blogs, but I just feel like I need to defend Jessica Simpson. Over the past week photos of her in those famous high waisted jeans have been everywhere. Even Fox News mentioned this story, give me a break. Come on people don't we have other things to be worried about than if a woman has gained a little weight? I bet she still looks great in person. We have all had times in our lives when we have added on a few pounds and I just can't imagine having every magazine discussing it. I admit I love to read the trash magazines as much as the next person, but when is enough enough. She told fans she was having a tough week.http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20257460,00.html

Plus I know all us ladies have worn a outfit and thought I'm looking hot tonight and then we see a picture and think what was I wearing/thinking. Now I do give credit where credit is due this is not a good look on her, but we have all made the same mistakes or at least I have.
Let's support our fellow females instead of cutting them down.

So I thought I would post some great photos of Jessica. She has my dream hair that is for sure!

Photos courtesy of People.com

Current Obsessions

2009-02-04T18:45:00.013-07:00

Here are a few things I have a obsession with:

My blackberry. How did I ever live without this before?

Yogurt

T.V.
The following 3 shows have nothing in common and I guess show my varied taste.

Big Love, yes it is twisted but I love watching it.

John & Kate Plus 8 I can't get enough of this family. I want them to be my neighbors. Hannah is one of my favorites.

United States of Tara: This show is so crazy I just don't know how a husband and kids can be so normal with their Mom turning into 3 different characters.

Neutrogena body oil turns my dry alligator skin into baby soft skin

Lounge Pants I can't wait to get home at the end of the day and put them on immediately.

Senate sets a Example

2009-01-29T16:42:00.005-07:00

Finally a example has been set for corrupt individuals in politics "former" Governor Rod Blagojevich has been removed from his duties. Impeached by a unanimous vote by the IL Senate. This is the first time in 20 years this has happened and let it be a example to all the others holding positions in this country. We all want honest people running this country.

A direct quote spoken by the lovely man himself. I say goodbye to you and I love that you will not be allowed to hold ANY office in IL, it should be any office in the country. This will a long road for you Mr. Blagojevich lets see how your trial ends up.

Kelly's Korner: O HAPPY DAY!!!!!!!!

2009-01-29T06:56:00.000-07:00

If you haven't been keeping up with The Stamps family baby Harper is doing so much better. Kelly is still updating her blog and was able to feed Harper multiple bottles yesterday.
Please keep praying for this family

Kelly's Korner: O HAPPY DAY!!!!!!!!

It could be worse

2009-01-29T06:43:00.005-07:00

I have been M.I.A. this week due to a very busy work week. A friend sent me this email with some very icy weather. I know many have been hit hard with ice and snow across the United States, but had to share these pictures with all of you. Somewhere it could always be worse than where you are.....Can you imagine waking up to get into your car and it is iced over? What do you do, but wait for it to thaw out. I would love to call my boss and use the excuse my car is covered in a thick ice and I can't come to work today, he he.

These pictures are from Switzerland if my memory serves me (don't hold me to it).

Have a great Thursday wherever you are and whatever your weather looks like today!

Dirty Dancing Workout

2009-01-25T10:34:00.006-07:00

Quoted by Penny: "God wouldn't have given you the maracas if he didn't want you to shake'em"
So why would we want to let her down ladies....

If you love the movie Dirty Dancing like myself and all my friends I couldn't believe when I saw The DIRTY DANCING OFFICIAL DANCE WORKOUT DVD. Now not only can you get a good cardio workout but you can learn some of the dance moves that Baby herself learned oh so many years ago. This hasn't found a spot in my workout schedule but I am seriously contemplating purchasing it and dancing in the privacy of my own home.

Change a Pet's life

2009-01-23T17:13:00.008-07:00

Have you been thinking a dog/cat would complete your family? If so tomorrow could be your lucky day. Tomorrow is Change a Pet's Life Day just by clicking on the link you can select your state and find shelters that are participating. A huge perk besides rescuing a adorable furry future best friend the first ten adoptions at a shelter are free. Also you will leave with a starter kit including food and tips to make your new friend feel welcome in their new home.

Side note if a rescue dog/cat is not the best option for you and your family I plead with you to not buy from any pet stores instead look for a reputable breeder. You can locate reputable breeders by going to the AKC.org and searching my your state.

Being a pet owner myself I can't say enough about my little dog. She always shows me unconditional love. When I leave and return home even if I have only been gone 5 minutes or a couple days the excitement she has when I walk in the door is the best.

Honest Scrap Award

2009-01-19T16:36:00.039-07:00

Thanks to Running in High Heels

This is my first award...

The rules of the award:
1) Choose a minimum of 7 blogs that you find brilliant in content or design.
2) Show the 7 winners names and links on your blog, and leave a comment informing them that they were prized with "Honest Scrap." Well, there's no prize, but they can keep the nifty icon.
3) List at least 10 honest things about yourself.

1. I can not function in the morning without coffee. This is so sad but true without at least one cup I'm no good. Not just any coffee I admit it I'm a coffee snob.

2. You will never find dirty dishes sitting in my sink for very long. I can't take it and have to wash them right away. Dirty dishes just seem to make my whole kitchen look dirty.

3. I have to floss my teeth every night before I brush my teeth.

4. My dream would be to live in a house on a couple acres of land with a large yard and garden.

5. I'm fascinated with shows on the Discovery Health channel. Everything about human body simply amazes me.

6. I was a foreign exchange student while in high school. Great times but now I can barely speak a foreign language.

7. My fingernails & toenails have to always be polished. I will be late to any event in order to have all 10 fingers and toes perfectly polished.

8. Germs freak me out! This is such a random thing to tell you all but I hate touching door handles especially leaving public bathrooms.

9. This goes along with number 8 I hate using public bathrooms and will only use them if it is a last result. Not a good combination since I have a little bladder.

10. The local news disappoints me so I choose not to watch it. Living in a very large city everything reported is negative. I'm not saying I want to live in a fairy tale, but my job requires me to be in contact with people with hardships. If the news would report on some positive aspects of life society may actually spread the feeling of doing good.

I would like to tag the following blogs that I enjoy reading on a regular basis.

Preppy Little Dress

Puttin' on the G.R.I.T.S.

Fluffy Fashionable and Famous

Pink Cashmere Cardigan

Pink Bliss

Sweet Simplicity

Midwest Prep

Are you a Recessionista?

2009-01-19T15:11:00.021-07:00

According to Wikipedia the definition of a recessionista: A new term originated in the USA during the economic difficulties of 2008: recessionista combining the words recession and fashionista. Recessionista may be defined as: a person who strives to remain fashionable on a minimal budget.

Well I guess I fit the description of a recessionista, but I have always been this way. Trying to get the best deal possible, sometimes I just can't wait for that special item to go on sale and have to buy it right then.

Keeping with classic clothing items always helps me to transition between seasons & years. Cashmere sweaters, cardigans, argyle sweaters(personal weakness), dark denim, black trousers are staples in my wardrobe during the winter months. If I have these items I then mix in the trends with my accessories, shoes, and handbags. My staple accessory is a scarf, I'm always cold.

So if you are a recessionista here are a couple sales I went to today. I'm sure there are plenty others.

Target has all of there Home Design Event dept 30% off

Also the Targets in my area have an additional 30% off of the shoe clearance. I got a pair of heels for $4.20, what a deal!!

Pier 1 is having their 75% off sale right now

Crate and Barrel is also having a great sale I got several items there this weekend.

Restoration Hardware, thank you for the $100.00 off a $400.00 purchase. This is for their Inaugural Oath promotion. I have been wanting a couple light fixtures from here for a while now maybe the time to get them.

Ann Taylor loft has 30% off the latest sweaters, jackets, jeans...

Lastly one of my favorite J.Crew had their famous 20% off sale items but it expired yesterday. Have no fear it will return soon it always does right after I pay full price.

So if you are a recessionista like myself what are some of your tips for staying stylish on a budget?

Kelly's Korner: Please Pray

2009-01-16T21:07:00.003-07:00

Kelly's Korner: Please Pray

Please Pray for Kelley's little baby girl Harper. She is in very critical condition right now and their family needs all of our prayers right now.You can read updates here

My thoughts and prayers are with Kelly, Scott and Harper.

Cripsy Bacon & Longevity

2009-01-16T15:45:00.008-07:00

When I read this I thought you have got to be kidding me, bacon being linked with longevity. A little background is needed here bacon is not something I like or can even stand the smell of. These lips haven't had a piece of bacon touch them in over 15 years. Blame it on my nutritional class (Mr. SS does) and the information that was provided to me: bacon does not fit into any food groups other than fat. Now I know many other foods belong in the ugly fat group as well. Especially the sweets that call my name as I walk past a local bakery. But I have great will power to block their sweet voices out of my head and continue on my way.
Bacon on the other hand is just gross!

World's Oldest Woman Credits Longevity to Crispy Bacon

Medical science and conventional wisdom tells us that the path to a long and healthy life is paved with lean protein, whole grains and leafy green vegetables. However, the life and habits of Gertrude Baines, currently the world's oldest person at age 114, is proof that sometimes a little bacon is better.

Will you be included a little more bacon in your diet to help you live to be 114? I'm sticking with the lean protein and leafy greens...

Brrrrr

2009-01-15T07:44:00.012-07:00

I have the great pleasure of working in freezing temperatures today. The high is -4 degrees with a low being -19 degrees. I couldn't even bring myself to look at what the temp will be with the wind chill factored in.

I'm thinking I should have asked for this for Christmas:

Although this one is pretty cute considering it is a ski mask.....

I wonder how many funny looks I would get if I actually did wear this.

What makes you smile

2009-01-14T18:12:00.026-07:00

Sometimes you just want to hid under the covers and not get out of bed. This was me this morning, even the aroma of coffee couldn't get me up and moving. Finally after my third attempt at snoozing I surrendered and got into the shower. Personally I find it extremely hard to be motivated to go to work when the weather is so freezing cold and I'm in and out of my car all day long. While I was out schlepping through the wind, snow, and ice I started thinking back to when I was a little girl and how things were so simple. If I had a bad day at school I knew it would end eventually and my Mom always made me feel better. Back then a homemade chocolate chip cookie and a glass of milk always put a smile on my face and erased my bad day.

My husband is very good at making me feel better when I get home from a bad day at work. These days I am more likely to have a glass of wine or two and a hot bubble bath to bring the smile back and erase my bad day. This is where my hubby out does himself, I complained about my day multiple times today to him over the phone. When I came home a bottle of bubble bath and a bottle of my new favorite wine were waiting for me on the kitchen counter. Amazing how someone whether it is your Mom or hubby knows you so well and how something so small and simple can make a bad day end GREAT!

Here is my favorite Chocolate Chip Cookie recipe. I always keep some in the freezer rolled into balls so if I'm in the mood for a cookie I can have just one.

1 C. butter

1 C. firmly packed brown sugar

¾ C. sugar

1 t. vanilla

2 eggs

3 C. + 3 T. flour

¾ t. salt

¾ t. baking soda

1 – 12 oz. bag semi-sweet chocolate chips + another ½ C. chocolate chips

-Heat oven to 350 degrees.

-Combine butter, brown sugar, and sugar in large bowl.

-Beat at medium speed until well blended.

-Add vanilla and eggs. Beat 3 minutes.

-Add flour, salt and baking soda.

-Mix until well blended.

-Fold in chocolate chips.

-Freeze cookie dough for 1 hour OR refrigerate for 2 hours until firm.

-Remove dough from freezer or refrigerator.

-Shape cookie dough into 1” balls.

-Place cookie dough balls onto cookie sheet.

-Bake for 11 minutes or until golden brown.

Winter Pedicures

2009-01-13T20:14:00.008-07:00

Something I look forward to every month is a pedicure. There is a great spa near my house that features a "seasonal pedicure" coordinating with the season. Not only do you get the aromatherapy mask, scrub, lotion you get a cocktail. How wonderful is this? The featured pedicure I received in December was peppermint and the beverage was a peppermint kiss, pure bliss. The only draw back for me getting a pedicure during the winter months is the dreaded walk to your car. No matter how careful I am I seem to slip walking on the snow and ice in my flip flops all the while my feet start turning blue they get so cold. A girlfriend has the same problem and she was so sweet she sent me a pair of these:

How cute are these?! I couldn't find a picture of the exact pair she sent me, but they are very stylish. White with pink and green polka dots all over them. Has anyone seen these or tried them?
If you are in the market for a pair of pedicure socks I highly recommend you check them out. These socks can be found here: http://www.pedisavers.com

So of course my mind goes into overdrive and I have to Google pedicure shoes and these come up:

A girls dream they provide the warm like Uggs, but again letting your pretty tootsies dry. Even better is the name of these adorable boots, bootiepies.
These can be found here: http://www.bootiepies.com

So don't let the cold weather hold you back from enjoying a wonderful pedicure. Or if you not wanting to leave the comfort of your own home here are some steps to give yourself a Spa Pedicure at home. Better yet this could turn into a girls night in and you could create your own cocktail to go along with the theme.
http://www.marieclaire.com/hair/beauty/products/perfect-pedicure-1

Golden Globe Fashion

2009-01-12T16:05:00.001-07:00

Working in the fashion industry for several years in my past I still have the fashion bug. I almost get giddy as awards season approaches. It is almost a sickness that I can't control seeing what celebrity will decide to wear which designer. Did they stick to the known classics or venture to a new and up and coming name. Before I get started with my favorite and not so favorites I will share a small pet peeve of mine, seeing a beautiful woman wearing a gorgeous gown, to die for jewelry, stunning makeup and then there it is her hair is just normal a everyday look, do something different pull it up, back, curl it but something....

Last night did not disappoint with so many beautiful dresses for so many beautiful people.

Here are some of my favorites:

My favorite is this deep purple one shoulder I would wear this in a heartbeat!! Reminds me of a bridesmaid dress I wore in my best friends wedding. Only difference was mine was strapless with detailing but the same pretty deep purple. Everyone looks good in this color I think.

Both of these are very lady like dresses with full skirts and beautiful necklines.

Very different from each other but one very structured and the other whimsical.

The fair shades of these dresses are not for my fair skin tone but I love the silhouette none the least.

One very classic and elegant with such impeccable detail and the other very artistic. These two dresses very much fit the personalities of Kate and Cameron.

It is only fair to also share the dresses I didn't like:

Not quite sure what to say here other than I really dislike them both. Captain Jack comes to mind with those sleeves. Renee I just don't understand this dress too much going on for me with the hair, sleeves, nude bodice, full skirt. She is usually a star I love to see what she is wearing not last night, sorry.

Tattoos do not make beautiful accessories in my world.

All I can say is "Oh no they both didn't!!!"

Note this are just my thoughts and opinions some may agree some may not.
That is the beauty of fashion much like art you know what you like and what you do not.

Thanks Mrs. Stilettos

2009-01-12T09:41:00.002-07:00

I have to give a big THANK You to Mrs. Newlywed Stilettos http://newlywedstilettos.blogspot.com for her nice welcoming to not only myself but to all the other newbie bloggers out there.
Thanks so much for taking the time to make us all feel so welcome in the blogging community, you are such a sweetheart.

Stay tuned I will be posting my Golden Globe Fashion wrap up later this evening.

Happy Monday

Favorite Beauty Items

2009-01-11T10:54:00.026-07:00

Like most women I know I fall into the category beauty junkie, any new product I want to try it to see if it gives me the wonderful results the company claims. Below are a few of my favorite finds over the past few years.

This moisturizer works the best for me living in the Midwest. During the winter months I apply a serum and then coat my face and neck in this every night. If you have dry skin I would highly recommend this product to you.

I'm not a morning person so when I received this shower gel as a gift from a friend a few years ago I always have a extra bottle on hand. It smells so great and the mint really wakes me up. Not to mention the cooling effect is awesome after a workout or run.

I fell in love with this eye liner a few years ago for a couple reasons it stays on all day and never smudges. I would recommend you get the brush they sell to help with application. There are a lot more colors now then a few years ago I'm wanting to try the new black mauve shimmer ink.

This is the best face wash to just make your face feel clean without drying it out so much that you feel your face may crack. I wear contacts and use it on my eyes, but the downside is that it doesn't always get all my eye makeup off the time with the first wash. So if you wear a lot of eye makeup you may want to use a separate eye makeup remover.

For a inexpensive microdermabrasion scrub I've been using this. The wind & cold winter temps make my skin dry and flaky. This removes all the winter flakes and leaves behind a fresh glow.

These two products are both great and can be used together or separate. I just recently came across this tinted moisturizer and love it. Tinted moisturizers are a good friend of mine, I hate the feeling of liquid foundation and most powders make my face look so matte. I use these together during the work week so I have both the dewy look but also a little powder for staying power. On the weekends I only use this tinted moisturizer and can't say enough great things about it. I have tried pretty much every tinted moisturizer on the market expense to drug store and this is my new favorite. This powder is great because you use only what you need for that application. You twist the dial and it shaves off the amount you need. It also is the first anti-aging powder on the market.

My true love is lipstick/ lipgloss I have so many favorites its hard to count or remember. Santa brought me a couple of these this year and I have to say I've been wearing them everyday since Christmas. The colors I have been wearing are Pixel, Candid, and 35mm all are very neutral.

These are my favorite hair products. This shampoo/conditioner smells like coconut so I feel like I'm on vacation. Since my hair is long I need something to help me detangle and the tonic works amazing. To help smooth and add shine I use smoothing fluid. If you want a hairspray that will give you good hold but you can still run your hands through try this one. I even spray my hair then use my flat iron, curling iron or hot rollers to get protection from the heat.

Do you have any favorite beauty finds that you want to share?

Next up favorite clothing items....

Timing is everything

2009-01-08T20:27:00.006-07:00

Timing really is everything isn't it? Take today I'm having a stressful work day and just want a french vanilla coffee from Dunkin Donuts. I get to the drive thru and place my order and the girl tells me "we just ran out." How do you run out of coffee?? I did end up with Hazelnut and it was very yummy and gave me the extra jolt of caffeine I needed.

Next I call to see if I can get a manicure and the receptionist tells me "Oh if you would have only called a few minutes earlier she is all booked up" ugh. Then to end my day I get home from work change into my workout clothes go to the gym have a awesome workout with my trainer (great 30th bday gift to myself will post about that another time). Get home and get sucker punched with my sweet adorable neighbor little girl selling me Girl Scout cookies. She reminds me of myself going straight for the sell but at the same time pulling at my heartstrings by telling me how she can sell early to me since I'm a family friend and actual selling doesn't begin until Saturday (she gives me her big smile and I just love her blond pigtails). What she doesn't know is that she already has me because I can never say no to any child to has the tenacity to go out and sell something. I feel if you are financially able to buy from someones child then in the future someone will do the same for your child, hubby just says I'm a tenderheart. She had Perfect timing tonight knocking on my door when I'm feeling great after sweating and burning calories for a solid hour. Of course I need a couple boxes of Thin mints and hubby needs some Tagalongs.

My Motto for 2009

2009-01-06T16:21:00.005-07:00

One of my morning routines is to have the Today Show on in the background as I'm getting ready for work. A couple mornings ago they began talking about the dreaded topic of new years resolutions and how so many people fail on their resolutions and how instead we should make a motto for the year...a motto to live 2009 by.

I personally never make New Year's resolutions, they are just not my thing. I try to exercise, be healthier, spend less on clothes, shoes, handbags that I really don't need but want, and lastly the most important be a better wife, daughter, sister, and friend every year. But I really got thinking about living by a motto for a whole year, something I really could stick to and not let fall by the wayside.

My motto is to live a year without any Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas.

To be honest I am a guilty person always thinking I didn't do enough whether for someone/something, personal/professionally, always thinking to myself maybe if I just would have given a little more....In thinking back I find myself replaying conversations and how I always think if I would have/could have/should have done something other than what I did. In the end everything always turns out the way it is supposed to or at least that's what I believe "everything happens for a reason." So whenever a road block gets in my way this year I will simply think of this new motto of mine and will get going!

I actually already have something in the works to make quite a life change.... :)

A little about me

2009-01-03T12:15:00.005-07:00

I came across a cute blog today -http://pinkjulep.blogspot.com
(I already like her she shares my love of Chelsea Handler) and she did this post. I'm going to do it and I tag anyone else who wants to!

Here's the rule: Bold (or as I changed the color) the things you've done & post on your blog!
1. Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disney World
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon (let's pretend a half marathon counts)
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice (given got a pinch on the booty as I got off)
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run (Does wii baseball count?)
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check

Hair dryers

2009-01-03T11:33:00.002-07:00

I have very long hair that is thick, and fairly straight. All my friends keep telling me that I should try one of the new expensive hairdryers on the market. I have a dryer I purchase from Target a couple years ago and it still works but it does take me 4o plus minutes to dry my hair. Everyone has a suggestion on what is the best hair dryer on the market. Chi, T3, FHI, BaByliss and I know there are so many more. So I'm reaching out to see if anyone has some suggestions or love the hair dryer that they use and why....

Martha Stewart Does she really do it all??

2008-12-28T09:22:00.005-07:00

I will put put a warning on this post. If you are a huge Martha Stewart fan and believe that she comes up with all of the ideas on her show, magazine and truly does all of the following things you may be upset by the following. I however think some of the ideas that are on her show/magazine are creative but who really has the time to do these things. This was sent me me by a friend and I couldn't help but laugh I know so many working Mom's trying to do it all and feel like failures at the end of the day.

Martha Stewart Christmas Wish

Dear Santa,

I rarely ask for much. This year is no exception. I don't need diamond earrings, handy slicer-dicers, or comfy slippers. I only want one little thing, and I want it deeply.

I want to slap Martha Stewart. Now, hear me out, Santa. I won't scar her or draw blood or anything. Just one good smack, right across her smug little cheek. I get all cozy inside just thinking about it. Don't grant this wish just for me -- do it for thousands of women across the country. Through sheer vicarious satisfaction, you'll be giving a gift to us all.

Those of us leading average, garden-variety lives aren't concerned with gracious living. We feel pretty good about ourselves if our paper plates match when we stack them on the counter, buffet-style, for dinner. We're tired of Martha showing us how to make centerpieces from hollyhock dipped in 18-carat gold. We're plumb out of liquid gold, unless it's of the furniture polish variety.

We can't whip up Martha's creamy holiday sauce, spiced with turmeric. Most of us can't even say turmeric, let alone figure out what to do with it.
OK, Santa, maybe you think I'm being a little harsh. But I'll bet with all the holiday rush, you didn't catch that interview with Martha in last week's USA Weekend. I'm surprised there was enough room on the page for her ego. We discovered that not only does Martha avoid take-out pizza (she's ordered it only once), she also refuses to eat it cold. When it was pointed out that she could microwave it, she replied, "I don't have a microwave." The reporter, Jeffrey Zaslow, noted that she said this "in a tone that suggests you shouldn't either." Well, lah-dee-dah. Imagine that,Santa!That lovely microwave you brought me years ago, in which I've learned to make complicated dishes like popcorn and hot chocolate, has been declared undesirable by Queen Martha. What's next? The coffee maker? In the article, we learned that Martha has 40 sets of dishes adorning an entire wall in her home. Forty sets. Can you spell "overkill"? And neatly put away, no less. If my dishes make it to the dishwasher, that qualifies as "put away" in my house!

Martha tells us she's already making homemade holiday gifts for friends. "Last year, I made amazing silk-lined scarves for everyone," she boasts. Not just scarves, mind you. Amazing scarves. Martha's obviously not shy about giving herself a little pat on the back. In fact, she does so with such frequency that one has to wonder if her back is black and blue. She goes on to tell us that "homemaking is glamour for the twenty-first century," and says her most glamorous friends are "interested in stain removal, how to iron a monogram, and how to fold a towel." I have one piece of advice, Martha: "Get new friends." Glamorous friends fly to Paris on a whim. They drift past the Greek Islands on yachts, sipping champagne from crystal goblets. They step out for the evening in shimmering satin gowns, whisked away by tuxedoed chauffeurs. They do not
spend their days pondering the finer art of toilet bowl sanitation.

Zaslow notes that Martha was named one of America's 25 most influential people by Time magazine (nosing out Mother Theresa, Madeline Allbright, and Maya Angelou, no doubt) The proof of Martha's influence: After she bought
white-fleshed peaches in the supermarket, Martha said, "People saw me buy them. In an instant, they were all gone."I hope Martha never decides to jump off a bridge. (Or maybe,on second thought....) A guest in Martha's home told Zaslow how Martha gets up early to rollerblade with her dogs and to pick fresh wild blackberries for breakfast. This confirms what I've suspected about Martha all along: She's obviously got too much time on her hands. Teaching the dogs to rollerblade.What a show off. If you think the dogs are spoiled, listen to how Martha treats her friends: She gave one friend all 272 books from the Knopf Everyman Library. It didn't cost much. Pocket change, really. Just $5,000. But what price friendship,right? When asked if others should envy her, Martha replies, "Don't envy me. I'm doing this because I'm a natural teacher. You shouldn't envy teachers. You should listen to them." Zaslow must have slit a seam in Martha's ego at this point, because once the hot air came hissing out, it couldn't be held back. "Being an overachiever is nothing despicable. It is only admirable. Never lower your standards," says Martha. And of her Web page on the Internet, Martha declares herself an"important presence" as she graciously helps people organize their sad, tacky little lives.

There you have it, Santa. If there was ever someone who deserved a good smack, it's Martha Stewart. But I bet I won't get my gift this year. You probably want to smack her yourself.

I'm back & Christmas Tree Decor

2008-11-29T11:50:00.001-07:00

So I started my blog and then life got really really busy. I'm going to put forth more of a effort to post at least once a week. With the holidays in full motion I have been in such a wonderful mood. Something about getting all the Christmas Decorations out from the basement and beginning to decorate. I started the process last weekend, since we were going to be out of town for a few days for Thanksgiving. Finally got my tree decorated, This brings me to ask how do you decorated your tree? Mine is all German glass ornaments, with lots of gold sparkly decor and finally wrapped in gold ribbon. This year I added some peacock feathers that are usually in a centerpiece on my dining room table for just a little something different.

Lesson Learned

2008-10-13T19:04:00.000-06:00

Nothing is more frustrating than having someone talk to you about a topic you know nothing about. This happened to me this weekend, my car had to go to the dealership to have some routine maintenance done or so I thought. When I get the phone call that my usual oil change, tire rotation and winterizing is not enough I freeze Mr. SS usually deals with the cars. The man proceeds to tell me my struts need replaced (who knew I had these), a valve is loose and needs to be repaired, and something is leaking. All I hear is blah blah blah....After being very patient and hearing him out I say please just do the routine items and I will talk with my husband (who is out of town and this is why I have to deal with this mess, but that is beside the point) be there to pick up my car.

In the mean time I call a friend of a friend who is a mechanic and recite the whole conversation to him. He puts all my worries to rest and tells me to ask some specific question with my trusty notebook in hand I call the dealership. Wouldn't you know it the man tells me I should come in so he can "show" me what he is talking about rather than tell me over the phone. Like I know what I'm going to be looking at anyway.
Lesson learned once I arrived at the dealership and proceeded to ask all the questions I had written down I walked away with my routine items only. I understand the economy is tough and everyone needs to make money but should you take advantage of people for your benefit.